It’s innate for some couples to express 100% of their love and affection towards their partner at the very first stage of their relationship. 

However, like a blazing bonfire in the middle of the night, love may slowly lose its burning flames – and just like the road, love may have its bumpy surfaces too.

Though, losing love and affection to your partner happens if both of you can’t make an effort to meet halfway on the road. Love must not have superiors and inferiors – love is all about fairness and kindness. 

If your relationship or marriage with your partner is currently in the middle of the storm, then this article is the best-suited read for you. Regain the slowly dying love and affection with the help of the following tips. 

1. Always remember how and where you started

Can you still recall the last time you said “I love you” to each other? How about the last time you exchange compliments or sweet words? 

If not, then that only means it has been ages since the last time you said those things to your partner, and vice versa, right?

Well, the problem with some couples is that they only know how to be sweet when the relationship is merely fresh from the oven – that’s wrong, mate! 

And one of the best ways you can do to regain the love and affection is by having a moment of silence taking a look back to where you and your love story started.

Why? It’s because, in that way, each of you will be able to realise how each of you has changed.

2. Always make time for some date nights

Whether you’re a married couple or not, it’s understood that living together can somehow bore you or worn you out for some sort of reasons. Don’t let the burning fire turn into ashes. 

Make time for some date nights so you can both have fun, recharge, and unwind. A well-planned couples night out gives partners a chance to create more memories together. 

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3. Stay true to your partner no matter what 

One thing that might totally ruin your relationship or marriage is being dishonest. It’s understood that some people who enter a relationship still want a little piece of their privacy. 

However, in the context of relationship and marriage, privacy is served but you must never take it for granted. 

That means that you must still stay faithful, honest, and loyal to your partner with or without an engagement ring on your finger. Some people think that without an engagement ring to show, it’s fine to cheat and have fun even when they’re already in a relationship. 

If your partner doesn’t ask for your phone’s password, then don’t take it as a chance to talk to someone else and stab him/her on the back. 

4. Never disregard transparency and communication

Most relationships fail evidently because of lack of transparency and communication. And if you’re also one of the people who are fighting for their relationship, then look around, observe, do you communicate with each other well? 

If not, then you now know what to do. T A L K for your relationship’s sake! A good habit of transparency and communication will really bring peace of mind to your relationship. 

Always tell what you feel, cite your opinion, communicate, communicate, and COMMUNICATE!

5. Make enough room for some intimate and romantic time

For couples especially for those who are married, making room for an intimate and romantic time is also important. This is one of the best ways to stay attached to your partner. 

Love and affection will surely stay if you only give some time even for a little romance. Never get tired holding each other’s hands, or giving each other a kiss, tight hugs, and so on. 

Now that some of the best tips have already been unfolded right into your hands, why not call on your partner and rekindle the love? We can’t wait to hear your stories, lovebirds!

AUTHOR BIO:

Kath Ramirez embraced the dream of being a writer since she was in 4th grade. She took it seriously and she now writes for Musson Jewellers, an award-winning provider of the finest jewellery not only in Sydney but all over the world. Aside from writing, Kath also keeps herself busy spending time with her family, cherishing the role of a mom to her fur babies, reading random books, and diving into the world of photography. She’s not even a pro to whatever she’s engaged into right now, but one thing she knows, she’s happy and that’s more than enough.